tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post2960618817749233322..comments2024-02-19T22:37:36.379-07:00Comments on Because Being Ordinary Is Boring: Depression (Post #666, of course)Beckahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10260238987157763316noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-83670062658356202882013-12-07T09:25:57.079-07:002013-12-07T09:25:57.079-07:00I know it's easier said than done, but don'...I know it's easier said than done, but don't beat yourself up for meeting an A$$HOLE. Love makes everybody blind and I don't think you should feel ashamed or bad for trusting somebody and loving somebody. I'm a big believer in karma and karma is a bitch. Sooner or later, he will get the payback he deserves and you will be in a very good place soon. Don't look back and beat yourself up. Try to take it one day at a time and make it the best day for you and your little daughter. Good things will happen to good people!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-83630354259226232762013-12-05T19:53:21.923-07:002013-12-05T19:53:21.923-07:00(((Hugs)))
I'm hoping that by writing this y...(((Hugs))) <br />I'm hoping that by writing this you have a sense of release. No, all your problems aren't solved but it does help to get it out. And until you start to feel better, maybe you can focus on what is good in your world - I find that when I force myself to focus on the good, it starts to outshine what feels so overwhelmingly bad. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-44087226670764803592013-12-05T11:53:21.415-07:002013-12-05T11:53:21.415-07:00I agree, there are no magic words.
I can't s...I agree, there are no magic words. <br /><br />I can't say things will get better, or something will change, because, you know, who knows? But what CAN change is how you choose to feel about the things around you. When you are constantly thinking about what you don't have, can't afford, are unhappy with, what other people are doing, it's easy to fall into the sneaky hate spiral.<br /><br />Sometimes, if you look, you can find that gross piece of corn under the refrigerator. <br /><br />You can't control what other people say or think about you. You can only control how you choose to take that information. So now you know J thought those things. So what. It's over. Are those things true? Are they things you want to change? <br /><br />Anyway. Don't let yourself be defined by this. giraffyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06643989887305414709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-28433045281511486292013-12-05T08:39:47.465-07:002013-12-05T08:39:47.465-07:00I'm sorry. I understand. Especially about peo...I'm sorry. I understand. Especially about people droning on about their own relationships. The smug ones are the worst. There are no magic words to get your through. Just try to do things that bring you some fun and joy. I think this time of year always makes things worse with the dark short days.....it'll get better.Jennifer K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06606118336143343644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-64630102563753285652013-12-05T07:48:18.436-07:002013-12-05T07:48:18.436-07:00i was in a very similar place in 2009 with both me...i was in a very similar place in 2009 with both men drama and $$. unfortunately (at least for me) no advice from anyone really helps. it literally takes a snapping point or exhaustion from all the tears to finally be able to move on and be okay. Hopefully that will happen for you soon. Hang in there Lisa Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02922353571818312472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7707007344589561021.post-13442448588802494452013-12-05T06:34:11.881-07:002013-12-05T06:34:11.881-07:00This makes me sad. I'm not even going to begi...This makes me sad. I'm not even going to begin to try to analyze what's going on or give you advice. I don't even know you--even though I feel like I do. I do know that when things are at their worst, the only place to go is up. It's coming. You just don't know when or how.<br /><br />I don't believe in God, but if you do, it might give you some comfort to turn to that right now. <br /><br />Guys are assholes and I'm pretty sure if I ever divorced or became a widow, I would never date again. I just don't have the energy for that type of bullshit.ltlindianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16404710091831392847noreply@blogger.com